Babywearing Bonanza

Anyone looking into baby wearing or just a really big fan of baby wearing will want to check out the Babywearing Bonanza that Andrea @ Simple Things is hosting this week. There will be several babywearing-related giveaways, articles about babywearing, interviews with babywearing experts and the owners of babywearing companies and more!

I know I’m planning to try my hand at baby wearing again with my next child (who will be conceived any little hot minute now, god willing) despite my not so great experiences with baby wearing in the past, now being armed with a ton of great information about baby wearing, the only thing I’m lacking is the baby and the wrap. :)

You can read some of my posts about about baby wearing here, and DEFINITELY you’ll want to check out Andrea’s posts, too and tune in for the Bonanza – I know I can’t wait.

NieNie: Turning a Tragedy into a Tale of Fortuity

I just read this story at 5 Minutes for Mom about Stephanie Nielson, an incredible woman, mother & blogger who was recently in a devastating airplane crash, which killed the pilot and left Nielson and her husband in critical condition, still now fighting for their lives – trying to overcome this tragedy so they can get back to loving their lives with their four adorable children.

I kept seeing this NieNie button (like the one at the top of this post) all over the place, as well as information about the silent auction being held in their honor, but until today I never actually stopped to read WHAT NieNie was, what the auction was for, and why I should care. I’m very glad I finally did that today. You know stories like this move me beyond words, and Stephanie’s family seems like an amazing one, more than worthy of our support. I know many of you can only do so much – your own lives may be just as complicated and strugglesome as the people 5 Minutes for Mom and other bloggers are reaching out to. Some of us can barely afford getting by ourselves, without trying to reach out to others. I know.

But the way that these bloggers are reaching out to Nielson and her family is just amazing – even just to READ about, so at the very least, if you have time today, or tomorrow, go and read the post at 5 Minutes for Mom and maybe reach out to the Nielson family if you can. It’s knowing there are kind people out there who WANT to help, that makes knowing about these tragedies a little easier on the heart – knowing that life is precious, but humanity can be remarkable in their kindness and willingness to reach out. That’s what it’s all about, you know?

7 OTHER Things: Cause You Just Can't Get Enough of Me and Weirdness

Can you believe somebody out there wants to know 7 MORE random things about me? I know I was surprised, too. But Andrea @ Simple Things totally tagged me yesterday to tell you all 7 “weird” things about myself. Let’s see, last time I did this meme, I told you all about me, my childhood, my parents, my strange decorating ideas & how much I want a puppy (oh so much). In fact sometimes I think I talk about myself far too much. But what is there about ME that you might not know?

  1. Sometimes when I’m bored I like to pretend that I’m not just boring old me at boring old place, but secretly a secret agent or a ninja, and I was sent to the supposedly boring location to do something amazing – maybe I find a note under my water glass instructing me to meet a certain stranger in the coat rack at 9 hundred hours or something. Something devious. And probably the lipstick in my bag is really an amazing weapon / video camera designed specifically for me – but it’s ALSO lipstick, also designed specifically for me. Yeah I totally did that last night at the wedding dh and I went to. I’ve shown this video before, but it’s always a good one and totally shows that I’m not the only one:
  2. I like to listen to one CD obsessively at a time – sometimes for months, sometimes just a week, but always until it has nearly completely worn out it’s welcome. Right now, I’m all about John Mayer’s “Where The Light Is” and I’m rocking out to it in my mind right now even though it isn’t playing. I don’t really listen to music in the apartment, pretty much just in the car now that I have a son who would rather watch PBS than listen to John Mayer (go figure, right?). But in my mind, I’m strumming on the old guitar, singing, “Go on and tell your friends EXACTLY what Johnny did…” complete with twangy overtones and contempt for whoever the song is about (my guess is Jessica Simpson? who knows). Hopefully John gets the memo and gets JNatalie’s number soon so he can be happy and my matchmaking skills can finally come to fruition.
  3. I like to go on tangents and often begin talking about one thing and end up talking about something completely different with no earthly idea how I got there. My husband is often amazed by it. Or annoyed. You know. Whatev.
  4. I like saying things like “whatev” and “le tired” and “wicked pissah” to make myself feel young and hip, which is silly because to many people I still am young and hip probably, but at 25 years old I often feel closer to like 50 in degrees of tiredness and general point in life edness. Or maybe 35. You know. “Whatev” I feel old!! So I act young and hip to rebel against my body and … The Man, whoever he is.
  5. Ever since I saw the movie “What Happens in Vegas” I have been searching for an opportunity, any opportunity to talk about junk-punching. It doesn’t come up much, so I’ve had to resort to a couple of completely irrelevent situations (like while playing PackRat on Facebook and I’m all annoyed cause I’ve been looking for one damn card for like 3 days with no luck…) to just bring it up anyway and sometimes, just look up at my husband and say, “You know why.” And he knows.
  6. You should really see that movie. And also Boondock Saints. And Elf. And The Princess Bride. And Elmo in Grouchland. And Roman Holiday. And then I think, after all that, we can talk.
  7. But I might be wrong.

And I’m totally not tagging people because I’ve filled out this meme twice now and I think recently have done other memes and I’m tired of tagging, I’m tired of the mundanity of it all, man. So if you want to meme, get on with your badself. And if you don’t? Don’t.

Momma Contemplates The Election

So, I don’t know how often I’m going to do this, this being talk politically on my blog. I know this speaks ill of a former news editor / former managing editor / former editor in chief of a student newspaper, but political news bores me / infuriates me. I hate campaigns – I hate that politicians often seem to think so little of us as citizens, that they submit us to smear campaigns, play the emotion card at any given moment, and assume that we will research as little as possible, and might be swayed by the sneakiest of actions.

But, in spite of my annoyance at political news and campaigning I think voting is very important, if not only because it can achieve giving the people what they want, than because it’s our right as citizens and should be utilized so that we can always say we had a voice, a chance to speak our mind and stand for what we believe in. As a woman, my “vote” has been fought for hard, and I think it would be rude of me to ignore it.

And as a woman, I’m kind of annoyed with the news that McCain has chosen a female as his running mate, according to the New York Times, as “a gamble that an infusion of new leadership — and the novelty of the Republican party’s first female candidate for vice president.” Now, maybe there was more to it than that – perhaps the fact that Palin was voted “Hottest Governor in America.” And according to SFGate.com, A former athlete and beauty queen, Palin’s approval ratings hover in 90 percent zone.

Basically, in this election, both major candidates have chosen a VP who is strong where they are weak – which totally makes sense, but at the same time, you have to wonder that while Obama chose a VP who has more political experience and more experience in International Affairs, McCain chose a candidate with less political experience, who happens to be a girl, and purportedly an attractive one. Is that all he thinks he needs?

Well, feeling the need to educate myself better than what your basic news media is going to tell me, I turned to my favorite, “Everything there is to know” source, Wikipedia. Here’s what I found out:

photo by Alaskan Dude, photo links to photographers profile

photo by Alaskan Dude, photo links to photographer's flickr profile

Palin holds a bachelor’s degree in journalism from the University of Idaho where she also minored in politics.

Her husband, Todd, is a Native Yup’ik Eskimo.[4] Outside the fishing season, Todd works for BP at an oil field on the North Slope[5] and is a champion snowmobiler, winning the 2000-mile “Iron Dog” race four times.[4] The two eloped shortly after Palin graduated college; when they learned they needed witnesses for the civil ceremony, they recruited two residents from the old-age home down the street.[4] The Palin family lives in Wasilla, about 40 miles (64 km) north of Anchorage.[6]

On September 11, 2007, the Palins’ son Track joined the Army. Eighteen years old at the time, he is the eldest of Palin’s five children.[6] Track now serves in an infantry brigade and will be deployed to Iraq in September. She also has three daughters: Bristol, 17, Willow, 13, and Piper, 7.[7] On April 18, 2008, Palin gave birth to her second son, Trig Paxson Van Palin, who has Down syndrome.[8] She returned to the office three days after giving birth.[9] Palin refused to let the results of prenatal genetic testing change her decision to have the baby. “I’m looking at him right now, and I see perfection,” Palin said. “Yeah, he has an extra chromosome. I keep thinking, in our world, what is normal and what is perfect?”[9]

Details of Palin’s personal life have contributed to her political image. She hunts, eats moose hamburger, ice fishes, rides snowmobiles, and owns a float plane.[10][11] Palin holds a lifetime membership with the National Rifle Association. She admits that she used marijuana when it was legal in Alaska, but says that she did not like it.[12]

In 1996, she challenged the incumbent mayor, criticizing wasteful spending and high taxes.[4] The ex-mayor and sheriff tried to organize a recall campaign, but failed.[4] Palin kept her campaign promises, reducing her own salary, as well as reducing property taxes 60%.[4] She ran for reelection against the former mayor in 1999, winning by an even larger margin.[4][13] Palin was also elected president of the Alaska Conference of Mayors.[7]

In 2006, Palin, running on a clean-government campaign, executed an upset victory over then-Gov. Murkowski in the Republican gubernatorial primary.[4] Despite the lack of support from party leaders and being outspent by her Democratic opponent, she went on to win the general election in November 2006, defeating former Governor Tony Knowles.[4] Palin said in 2006 that education, public safety, and transportation would be three cornerstones of her administration.[12]

Highlights of Governor Palin’s tenure include a successful push for an ethics bill, and also shelving pork-barrel projects supported by fellow Republicans. Palin successfully killed the Bridge to Nowhere project that had become a nationwide symbol of wasteful earmark spending.[9][16] “Alaska needs to be self-sufficient, she says, instead of relying heavily on ‘federal dollars,’ as the state does today.”[10]

Palin is strongly pro-life and belongs to Feminists for Life.[12] She opposes same-sex marriage, but she has stated that she has gay friends and is receptive to gay and lesbian concerns about discrimination.[12] While the previous administration did not implement same-sex benefits, Palin complied with a state Supreme Court order and signed them into law.[32]

She supported a democratic advisory vote from the public on whether there should be a constitutional amendment on the matter.[33] Alaska was one of the first U.S. states to pass a constitutional ban on gay marriage, in 1998, along with Hawaii.[34]

When the Alaska Creamery Board recommended closing Matanuska Maid Dairy, an unprofitable state-owned business, Palin objected, citing concern for the impact on dairy farmers and the fact that the Dairy had just received $600,000 in state money. When Palin learned that only the Board of Agriculture and Conservation could appoint Creamery Board members, she simply replaced the entire membership of the Board of Agriculture and Conservation.[10][36] The new board, led by businesswoman Kristan Cole, reversed the decision to close.[36] The new board approved milk price increases offered by the dairy in an attempt to control fiscal losses, even though milk from Washington was already offered in Alaskan stores at lower prices.[37] In the end, the dairy was forced to close, and the state tried to sell the assets to pay off its debts but received no bids.[38][39]

-from Wikipeida entry on Sarah Palin

One issue I’m not a fan of, according to the same New York Times article referenced above:

“She differs with Mr. McCain on a controversial environment issue that centers on her home state: she supports drilling for oil in the Arctic National Wildlife Reserve. Mr. McCain’s opposition to drilling — even after he changed positions and began advocating for off-shore oil drilling — has upset many Republicans.”

Okay, so there is some good and some bad, but let’s all agree, her role as VP would be more important than being an attractive woman, and McCain had certainly better admit to as much.

Now what about Obama’s pick of Senator Joe Biden? Here’s what Wikipedia has to say about him:

Photo by marcn - photo links to photographers flickr profile

Photo by marcn - photo links to photographer's flickr profile

Born and raised in Scranton, Pennsylvania for ten years prior to moving to Delaware, Biden trained as a lawyer and became a senator in 1973 at age 30, the fifth-youngest senator in U.S. history. He has served as chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, dealing with issues related to drug policy, crime prevention, and civil liberties. He is a long-time member and current chairman of the Foreign Relations Committee and has worked on resolutions concerning the Yugoslav wars and Iraq War.

In 1966, while in law school, Biden married Neilia Hunter. They had three children, Joseph R. “Beau” Biden III, Robert Hunter, and Naomi Christina (“Amy”). His wife and infant daughter died in a car accident shortly after he was first elected to the Senate in 1972. His two sons, Beau and Hunter, were seriously injured in the accident, but both eventually made full recoveries. Biden was sworn into office from their bedside. Persuaded not to resign in order to care for them, Biden began the practice of commuting an hour and a half each day on the train from his home in the Wilmington suburbs to Washington, D.C., which he continues to do.

In 1977, Biden married Jill Tracy Jacobs. They have one daughter, Ashley, and are members of the Roman Catholic Church. In February 1988, after suffering from neck pains, Biden was hospitalized and underwent lifesaving surgery to correct two brain aneurysms, one of which began leaking.[7] The hospitalization and recovery kept him from his duties in the U.S. Senate for seven months.

Biden’s elder son, Beau, had been a partner in the Wilmington law firm of Bifferato, Gentilotti, Biden & Balick, LLC until he was elected Delaware Attorney General in 2006. Beau is a captain in the Delaware Army National Guard, where he serves in the Judge Advocate General’s (JAG) Corps. He is set to be deployed to Iraq in October 2008.[8] Biden’s younger son, Hunter, works as a lawyer in Washington, D.C., serves on the board of directors of Amtrak, and previously worked in the Commerce Department.

In 1981, Biden received an honorary degree from Saint Joseph’s University.[9] Since 1991, Biden has also served as an adjunct professor at the Widener University School of Law. He teaches a seminar on constitutional law.

Biden has been involved in crafting many federal crime laws over the last decade, including the Violent Crime Control and Law Enforcement Act of 1994, also known as the Biden Crime Law, and the landmark Violence Against Women Act of 1994 (VAWA), which contains a broad array of measures to combat domestic violence and provides billions of dollars in federal funds to address gender-based crimes. In 2000, the Supreme Court ruled that the section of VAWA allowing a federal civil remedy for victims of gender-motivated violence exceeded Congress’ authority and therefore was unconstitutional.[19] Congress reauthorized VAWA in 2000 and 2005.[20] In March 2004, Biden enlisted major American technology companies in diagnosing the problems of the Austin, Texas-based National Domestic Violence Hotline, and to donate equipment and expertise to it.[21][18]

Biden is also a long-time member and current chairman of the U.S. Senate Committee on Foreign Relations. In 1997, he became the ranking minority member and chaired the committee from June 2001 through 2003. When Democrats re-took control of the Senate following the 2006 elections, Biden again assumed the top spot on the committee in 2007. His efforts to combat hostilities in the Balkans in the 1990s brought national attention and influenced presidential policy: traveling repeatedly to the region, he made one meeting famous by calling Serbian leader Slobodan Milosevic a “war criminal.” He consistently argued for lifting the arms embargo, training Bosnian Muslims, investigating war crimes and administering NATO air strikes. Biden’s subsequent “lift and strike” resolution was instrumental in convincing President Bill Clinton to use military force in the face of systematic human rights violations.[23] Biden has also called on Libya to release political prisoner Fathi Eljahmi.[24]

Biden is a leading advocate for dividing Iraq into a loose federation of three ethnic states.[27] In November 2006, Biden and Leslie Gelb, President Emeritus of the Council on Foreign Relations, released a comprehensive strategy to end sectarian violence in Iraq.[28] Rather than continuing the present approach or withdrawing, the plan calls for “a third way”: federalizing Iraq and giving Kurds, Shiites, and Sunnis “breathing room” in their own regions.[29] Iraq’s political leadership united in denouncing the resolution, and the U.S. Embassy in Baghdad issued a statement distancing itself.[28] Senior military planners cautioned that a partition policy would require American military presence of 75,000 to 100,000 troops for years to come.[27]

Various interest groups have given Biden scores or grades as to how well his votes align with the positions of each group.[63] Biden has a lifetime 72 percent score from Americans for Democratic Action through 2004, while the American Conservative Union awarded Biden a lifetime rating of 13 percent through 2007.[64] Biden has a lifetime average “liberal” score of 77.5 percent, according to a National Journal analysis that places him ideologically among the center of Senate Democrats.[65] The ACLU gives him an 86 percent lifetime score, with a 91 percent score for the current session of Congress.[66]

-from the Wikipedia entry on Joe Biden

Great. Where does this leave me? I’d kind of been counting on the VP picks to help sway me, but there are things about each candidate that I like, and things I don’t like. It’s Obama / Clinton all over again for me. I really don’t know where I lean, although I’ve said for some time now that I’m planning to vote Obama, in truth, now that I know McCain isn’t choosing Mitt Romney as his running mate, I have no true reason to be disappointed regardless of which way the election goes – Romney being the only candidate I feel strongly against.

In the last election, after being a huge Dean-ebopper, I eventually came around to the slightly terrifying looking John Kerry and voted for him with enthuasiasm. Living in New England, it seemed certain he would win, so when Bush took office I was more than a little shocked, and then, more than a little heartbroken. And I suspect that this election is doing a number on me. Kind of like the numbness that follows a bad breakup, I think I’m afraid to truly care one way or another, and maybe relieved that I don’t. I plan to vote Obama at this point, because he seems my best pick based solely on issues, but part of me wishes I cared more…

Aloha Friday Gets Political

In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is the day that you take it easy and look forward to the weekend. So over at An Island Life, Kailani decided that on Fridays she would take it easy on posting, too. She’ll ask a simple question for you to answer. Nothing that requires a lengthy response.

If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link at An Island Life’s blog. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! It’s a great way to make new bloggy friends!

For this week’s aloha friday, I thouht I’d mix it up a bit and talk about something entirely new for this blog – I want to get political with you lovely bloggers for just a moment. I won’t go into a long diatribe here (though I might in another post, not sure yet) but basically I’m curious as to your political leanings.

Which way do you plan to vote this November?

McCain? Obama? Other?

And if you’d like to, please feel free to explain your thoughts and reasons and concerns.

Sometimes I think it’s easy to tell which direction a person will lean politically, but as I’ve grown, I’ve learned this is less and less true. Personally, I’m one of those eternally middle of the road people, so even when I feel strongly in one way one particular thing, I might lean strongly the other way on another. The advantage of this – is that I’m usually pretty good at seeing both sides of things. Usually.

Still when it comes to presidential elections, I’ve until recently had a pretty easy time picking a candidate to support. This is one of the first elections I’ve felt remarkably uncertain in, and I’d love to hear some of your thoughts. I think I know which way I’m voting but I do like to be well informed, and would always love more information before making such a big decision (not that I’m entirely certain my decision will mean much to the rest of the world).

How do you go about getting your political news and information? What issues really drive you to vote one way or another? Which way did you vote in the last election and how did the result make you feel? Has it influenced how you will vote in this election? And if you don’t have time to get into all that, a simple name will do. :)

happy 100th post to you, happy 100th post to you, happy 100th post to Jiggity Jigg…

Jenni @ Jiggity Jigg is celebrating her 100th blog post today – her goal is to get 100 comments to celebrate this auspicious event. You know you want to help. :) I should have done something for my 100th post, but wasn’t paying attention and didn’t see it pass… now I’ll have to wait for like 1000 or something… drats. So anyway – Go forth and comment guys!

Elmo Laughs: Momma Posts Videos Online

I was thinking the other day that I don’t take enough “home movies.” So to remedy this situation, this afternoon I took about fifteen short 1 minute videos of playing with MM. They cover a lot of ground – playing FireFighters, reading books, and playing with our Elmo Flashlight.

That game was pretty terrific, so I thought I’d post the video here so you can see how cute my son is / how lame I am. The video doesn’t really do the game justice. Before I whipped out my trusty camera, he was pretending to not know how the flashlight worked, and everytime he’d touch Elmo, I’d make it go off and “laugh” and he’d jump half a foot each time. It was hilarious. But of course when we try to catch our kids on camera or film doing some thing cute, it seems they immediately know what’s up and play dumb. So you might not see why this video was really showofftoallmybloggyfriends worthy, but I’m his mother, so I think it’s adorable.

I was going to post the “firefighter” video too but apparently it’s too big. So I’m guessing the “reading a book” one is even more too big. So you guys lucked out, and this is the only video I’m posting (today). I also scored some awesome MM wearing a Santa Hat in September pictures, which I’m planning to save for next week’s Wordless Wednesday. :)

It's Real Life: It's How I Roll


It’s been a long time – too long – since the last It’s Real Life meme – you may not know that this was the meme that started it all for me. The first meme I really participated in, the first time I saw how amazing a meme could be. So despite being all kinds of happy for Jessica @ Farm Fresh when she had her new baby, I was also a bit sad that there was a break in ‘Real Life’ memeing as she focused on her ‘real life’ as mother of a new newborn. :)

Well the wait is over for us all, as she’s finally back to blogging in full speed (for the most part) and this week’s theme is a good one – ‘How I Roll’.

I had my current car, a cute little 2002 Toyota Corolla, several years before having children. We did college together, several trips between school and home. We did blizzards together. We did amazing parking maneuvers together – its turning radius is a dream by the way. It was a very cute very tidy little car. Even in my sloppiest moments, it was never terribly messy – never more than an old soda can here, an old list of directions there. My friends were not so tidy, particularly my one friend who had already embarked on motherhood. I never understood how a car could get as messy as others’ did. How did they let it get that bad without simply cleaning the car?

Those days are gone. I understand now. And to be honest, I don’t even mind. It’s more than worth the price of motherhood. This is how I roll.

Sure there are sportier cars. Newer cars. But this is my baby.

Speaking of baby, this is where my baby sits. Ignore the strange stains.

The car seat next to MM’s, behind the driver’s seat?

That’s were Super Bestie sits when he’s with us.

Maybe you can’t see the mess, but I assure you it’s there…

Exhibit A: under his feet – this pile is like a foot deep btw

Exhibit B : next to his seat… Okay I’m thinking the car is cleaner than usual…

But get a load of the trunk:

Yeah, you should know – this is the trunk on a good day.

This is organized and orderly. The essentials.

Beach Essentials, etc. (that bucket toy btw – TWO dollars at Babies’r'Us)

And the “grassy field” essential – we’ve used this ball once.

But I refuse to take it out, in case we ever go to a big grassy field again.

It could happen. We do stuff.

This is the passenger seat – recently cleaned, but not for the sake of this post.

This is where mommy sits when the whole family goes out.

That is the infamous potty seat, as mentioned in this post:

Things My Son Likes To Wear On His Head.

Here’s a view of the cockpit – where daddy normally sits.

You can see the rear view mirror and the “kid view” mirror.

You might notice a weird “empty” spot above the heating / cooling controls.

When we’re driving this is where we get our tunage – usually Gwen Stefani, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, KT Tunstall, Colbie Callait, or a kids CD like Veggie Tales or recently Snacktime by BNL.

But when we’re not driving, I take it out, to avoid theft.

Ignore the weird reflection of my hands. I tried to photo shop it out.

But left it in, because this is real life.

And because my photo shopping efforts failed miserably.

This, my friends, is my favorite parking spot.

It is in spitting distance of our building, shown on the right.

It is the middle spot of these three “prime parking” spot.

Making it the easiest spot to back out of.

And being a SAHM, I’m home frequently during the day.

Which means I’m frequently home to grab this spot.

Because it Rocks. Because that’s how I roll.

Thursday 13: White Mountains

This time next week, I’ll be packing our bags for a trip to the White Mountains. You may have noticed I’m excited. I’ve already told you all about Storyland and Santas Village, but really, the view of the White Mountains is reason enough to be excited for this vacation – here are 13 examples (photos found at various talented photographer’s Flickr pages – all pictures linked to photographer’s profile page):

photo by Fred Hsu

(1) photo by Fred Hsu

photo by gailf548

(2) photo by gailf548

(3) photo by pincusvt

(3) photo by pincusvt

(4) photo by GraceFamily

(4) photo by GraceFamily

(5) photo by ReneS

(5) photo by ReneS

(6) photo by shugbear

(6) photo by shugbear

(7) photo by jasonb42882

(7) photo by jasonb42882

(8) photo by walknboston

(8) photo by walknboston

(9) photo by walknboston

(9) photo by walknboston

(10) photo by Ford

(10) photo by Ford

(11) photo by GraceFamily

(11) photo by GraceFamily

(12) photo by GraceFamily

(12) photo by GraceFamily

(13) photo by GraceFamily

(13) photo by GraceFamily

For more Thursday Thirteen fun, head over to the T13 main post.