So I’ve mentioned Simple Mom’s little 5 week Project Simplify, correct? Every week she’s going to tackle a different area of the home and invite everyone reading along to do the same, blog about it and maybe win some fun prizes. Since we’re moving next month, I thought this would be a great chance to declutter before we start packing so we won’t have to move around junk that we don’t need.
This week is all about the wardrobe (click here for more information, inspiration, tips and such) which was so perfect and timely because the day before I read this, I actually went through my “unmentionables” drawer and got rid of all the holey socks and took a little mental inventory of things I need and things I already have too much of. My sock drawer has never looked so pretty and I was eager to say the same thing about the rest of my wardrobe, so Tuesday afternoon I purged while the kiddos “napped” (do your kids actually nap anymore? It’s slowly turning into a pretense here).
So this is what my closet looked like before I tackled it. Lots of mismatched hangers and feeble attempts at being organized, but mostly just a mess of clothing that doesn’t really fit and a whole bunch of things I never wear. After much modeling of ridiculous outfits and things I haven’t worn since I bought them, haven’t worn since I was pregnant or breastfeeding, etc. here’s what my closet looks like now:
I’m a take no prisoners kind of declutterer. I don’t really hestitate to send something packing once I decide that the clutter’s gotta go. I secretly adore the purge and feel liberated to see all that stuff head to the donation bin. The first thing I noticed while going through the closet is that I actually have some really nice stuff and a lot of it I might never notice because it was hiding in a big pile of ugly before. I also found some old favorites that I had been ignoring last spring because they were tough to nurse in, etc. This spring I plan to rock some old favorites and I won’t have a problem finding them now.
I got rid of a lot of skirts and dresses that I bought because they were gorgeous but never wore because they looked ridiculous on me. I’m learning to say that that’s okay and it’s not my fault and my body can only change in so many directions (i.e. I may be skinny someday, but I’m never going to be tall, etc.) I’d rather have two dresses that look rocking than twelve that just look meh.
Something else I found while cleaning my closet? Shoes I forgot I still owned. They were all covered up by those ridiculous dresses I was never going to wear. I tried them all on, too and found out that my Cheap Shoe Buying practices of yester year are even more uncomfortable now. So I tossed out the dingy, uncomfortable shoes and kept the two that looked / fit the best, though to be honest, I want to replace them, too at some point.
Much better. You know what else I got rid of?
I was thrilled to be able to get rid of all these mismatched hangers that came with shirts that are too big for me now. Buh bye evidence that I used to wear XL shirts. I won’t miss you.
Thanks to my rocking purging ways, this small assortment of mostly matching plastic hangers were plenty. I’ll probably pick up another pack for any future clothing purchases so I won’t be tempted to use the store hangers anymore.
I also went through my dresser – don’t think I flaked out after the closet, I’m serious when I say every piece of clothing was touched that day. Want some before and afters of the dresser, too? If not – go read something else. Momma’s not done yet!
This was my pajamas drawer, also known as that big pile of comfy stuff. It was a disaster area. I just grabbed whatever was on top. Truth.
I got rid of the stuff that was uncomfortable, way too big, way too small and then organized what was left into “pretties” ; “work out clothes – yes I actually own work out clothes – notice them and use them Jen!” ; “comfy but also cute” and “slippers and comfy socks that rarely get used but I’m keeping for now anyway because they don’t take up much space”
My goal is for all of my clothes to be cute or pretty, whether they are “comfy” or not. That’s getting closer and closer to reality. Huzzah.
This is my t-shirt drawer.
Not much happened here, but I did get rid of a few of my older t-shirts that were looking a little dingy. We don’t need dingy. I also made a slightly better attempt at folding as things went pack into the drawer.
Last but not least, my jeans drawer. This drawer made me kind of sad because:
Apart from the pants I was wearing when I took this picture, these two were the only other ones that fit. (and a pair of dressy capris not shown)
So this is what’s left for now, until I lose enough weight to squeeze into the rest, which I put in the bottom drawer that I never use because it’s so low:
When I opened that drawer by the way, I found an army of fat people clothing that made me feel really good to get rid of. I’d much rather hold on to skinny person clothing while I work on losing the weight. By the way, we’re only talking one or two clothing sizes smaller here – not like Size 6’s or anything. I’m being realistic here about what I’m keeping. As for the stuff I’m getting rid of:
My wardrobe might be teensie tiny now, but all this stuff was hiding the good stuff so I’m thrilled to be rid of it. Plus now when I pout and whine that “I have nothing to wear!” my husband can look at my closet and see that I speak the truth.
To reward myself for all my hard work of actually doing chore like stuff at naptime instead of lounging around watching iCarly reruns like I normally do, once I finished my hard work, I turned on the tv for half an hour before the kids woke up and enjoyed this:
I can’t go too hog wild, I am trying to lose weight after all. The Skinny Drawer is beckoning me, you know.
Are you purging this week with Simple Mom? Let me know in the comments section so I can come over and cheer you on!