Currently. (july 30 2012)

time out

Obsessing over: a new (to me) game on my phone called Song Pop. It’s basically “name that song” but ridiculously addictive and you can play with random people online yet it requires very little interaction with said strangers and it’s very minimal on the “nag your friends” side. And it makes me feel like my vast and diverse love of music is actually worthwhile and productive knowledge! And you can play it on Facebook, too, if you don’t have a smart phone!

Feeling: a little bit overwhelmed with chores that need to get done. Just getting back from vacation, replacing our refrigerator and all our groceries and carting the kids from one activity to another while battling a head cold has left me with precious little time to get things done and when I do find the time, I find I’d much rather catch up on my DVR or play on Facebook instead. Funny that…

my goobers

Working on: cleaning my home, getting MM ready for the upcoming school year – my baby is starting first grade! I’m looking forward to getting back to our fall routine and establishing new routines with BB but also apprehensive about the year to come and hoping that MM enjoys it as much as he enjoyed kindergarten and that he gets a good teacher this year.

Thinking about: ways to revitalize my diet and exercise routine. I admittedly fell off the bandwagon HARD while on vacation and I’m only just coming to terms with the fact that I am nowhere near recommitted to it yet. I’m not sure how I feel about that and what I plan to do about it other than acknowledge where I’m at.

soon to be first grader

Reading: Then Came You by Jennifer Weiner, a chick lit novel by one of my favorite authors about “four very different women intertwine in unexpected ways in this new novel by bestselling author Jennifer Weiner (In Her Shoes; Best Friends Forever). Each woman has a problem: Princeton senior Jules Wildgren needs money to help her dad cure his addiction; Pennsylvania housewife Annie Barrow is gasping to stay financially afloat; India Bishop yearns to have a child, an urge that her stepdaughter Bettina can only regard with deeply skepticism until she finds herself in a most unexpected situation.” I’m about 100 pages in so far and really enjoying it.

Anticipating: some fun events with my women’s group coming up, my 6th anniversary with the Hubby and the upcoming school year. Is it weird that I’m sort of looking forward to sweater season? I don’t want to be cold I just want an excuse to wear knitwear again.

Listening to: the kids playing. I really need to put them to bed soon and start the whole bedtime story / tooth brushing routine but they were playing (mostly) nicely and I thought I’d steal a moment to update the old blog with current stuff.

Drinking: nothing at the moment though I had a glass of water with dinner (and a can of coke zero not long before that…)

Wishing: that I could be silly and irresponsible for a little while. Spend money on fun things for myself, travel (I know, I’m crazy) and eat all the delicious food I want without the guilt. And maybe be child free for some of that time? This is my wish and it’s only half hearted because I’m equally looking forward to really getting back to our routine.

Pinning (The DIY Edition): 

one minute bubble solution * DIY tree swing * lemon buttermilk sheet cake * awesome loft bed from Ana White

best friends forever?

 

Vacation Wrap-up: Week Two

Week two of our vacation in Massachusetts was even more action packed than week one which included a long day of air travel, a late night viewing of my SIL’s 70s cover band, disc golf, a drive in movie, a trip to Boston, New Hampshire and Maine, a family cookout, swimming and a birthday party.

shopping with BB

Sunday afternoon we took the kids to one of the larger malls in the area to pick out a wedding present for my SIL who was getting married the following weekend. We found a beautiful teapot at Teavana that Dan and I both saw and instantly thought of his sister. Perfect.

BB at the playground

The next afternoon we took the kids to the playground at the elementary school where Dan once went to as a kid before meeting my aunt for lunch at the hot dog stand down the street. Massachusetts has at least two major hot dog stand style restaurants that everyone in the area has been and most love. Hot Dog Annie’s was a central figure in Dan’s childhood much the way that Four Corners was a major part of mine. The debate still rages on as to which makes a better hot dog.

cheese

BB says she doesn’t really care as long as we keep taking her to awesome places for lunch. Our kids would happily live on hot dogs which is good because they ate a LOT of them on this vacation.

keeping cool

Tuesday was another Kid’s Day and BB kept cool in the kiddie pool while the older kids, including MM,  swam in the large pool. I was grateful that she didn’t seem to think she was missing out because it meant I was able to sit in the shade and relax while the kids kept cool in the water.

splash

The next day we spent basically the entire day at Cool Sandy Beach, on and off again. Morning, afternoon and evening found us making makeshift sandcastles, hanging out with friends, walking along the water and eventually swimming also. And me taking lots of pictures.

look I was there, too!

sandcastles

running along the water with friends

dusk

Thursday we went blueberry picking with my grandmother and cousin. I have decided that blueberry picking is the very best kind of picking. You sit on a chair and easily pluck the blueberries from their plant. Eat some, save some and then go home and eat more. The weather was just overcast enough to keep us cool and relaxed without being cold. Perfection.

blueberry picking

Of course I had to linger and take pictures of every pretty flower that we passed…

flower

another flower

blueberries

Then we went to a dairy farm near my grandmother’s that has a few cute animals to visit, a playground and a farm store selling ice cream, eggs, milk and more.

Me and the BB

I made Dan take this picture of BB and I because I was reminded of taking another little tyke to this farm many moons ago when my friend’s daughter was BB’s age. Now she is practically a teenager – ack!

meandcay

I don’t know why this picture is so ridiculously small – a lot of my oldest digital pictures are for some reason now very, very tiny – but you get the idea. Here’s  another picture that is actually big enough to SEE from the same day…

me and cay back in the day

Seriously. I was practically still a teenager myself in this picture. Point is though – little Cay, little BB, littler Jen, bigger Jen… De ja vu. You get the idea, right? Okay, moving on…

sand tire?

After we looked at animals the kids played in the sand tire box and then we celebrated BB’s birthday again at my aunt’s house with a birthday bundt cake and seven minute frosting. It’s tradition that there be seven minute frosting at family birthday parties and we like to stick with our traditions. Especially where cake is concerned.

you don't mess with cake

daddys girl

The next day was July 21st – BB’s third birthday and my SIL’s wedding – how many girl’s get to wear the most beautiful dress in the world and have a hired band sing them happy birthday in the middle of their aunt’s wedding? Some girls have all the luck, huh?

beautiful girl

I could devote an entire post to pictures from this day but I’ll try to contain myself and just show you the best ones…

slide

picking flower petals

party animals

with the bride

with her uncle

another shot with "uncle bub"

rolling down the hill

perfect family pic

caveman daddy

Hmmm… ok this post just got very long. I’ve got three more days to share with you from the vacation but I think I’ll save them for another post. Stay tuned for BB’s first haircut, blowing bubbles with cousins, major attitude and our flight home.

Click the links to read part one and part three of my vacation wrap-up.

Vacation Wrap-up: Week One

So three weeks ago we got on an airplane and flew to Detroit and then sat around the Detroit airport for four or five hours and then got on another airplane and flew to Rhode Island where my in laws picked us up and drove us to Massachuetts. It was a loooooong day but we were apparently crazy or still riding the adreneline fumes of Fun & Exciting and because that night we put the kids to bed at my dad’s place and then drove 40 minutes into the “city” and watched my SIL perform with her 70′s cover band at Sakura Tokyo.

annie's band

I’ve never heard her sing anything outside of the church really so it was very cool to see her in “her element” – she is outrageously talented and we had a great time listening to the band as well as catching up with some of Dan’s family that had also come out to hear her perform.

swing

The next day we spent the morning with my dad and my grandparents. We swung on the old swing on the front porch that I have been swinging on all my life. Watching them swing with my grandma and remembering when I was there age sitting on that swing with grandma brought back a lot of great memories. The weather was blissfully perfect and a nice escape from the crazy 106 degree temps we’d left behind in Madison.

tuckered out

Dan and I spent the afternoon with his siblings playing disc golf which is basically frisbee in the woods with a lot of chaotic hiking thrown in while you retrieve your frisbee from the stream or behind the rocks or up the hill or down the hill while attempting to get it to the basket at the end of each little course. It’s sort of like hell but almost fun. His siblings are a pretty athletic, outdoorsy group and so half of the people playing had a blast and did really well and the other half enjoyed commiserating together and attempting to find a strategy to keep us out of the streams and sweating as little as possible. I like to call it don’t throw the frisbee farther than you can predict it’s landing and plan to take awhile.

When we met up with the kids and my dad afterwards for dinner they were pretty tuckered out. BB had fallen asleep in my dad’s arms and it was adorable and a lot of pictures were taken. We took them out to Friendly’s for dinner and ice cream and she ate pretty much a lollipop, french fries and ice cream so by the time dinner was over she was pretty thrilled despite waking up cranky. Also known as, we probably got played in a major way. She’s a crafty one.

That night we went to the drivein with Dan’s siblings again to end our Epic Sibling Day and it was pretty awesome but also pretty buggy. I don’t like bugs but they really seem to like me. We saw the new Spiderman movie which was pretty good but mostly thanks to Emma Stone frankly.

playing outdoors

We also spent a good bit of time playing outside and hanging out with one of my oldest besties who happens to live across the street from my uncle’s house where we were staying. It was awesome being able to step outside and see her and her hubby and kids and hang out in the off hours between running here and there.

kids day

Tuesdays in the Summer are Kids Day with Dan’s family. We all meet up at his aunt’s and the kids swim and eat junk food and the grown ups hang out in the shade and eat junk food and it’s pretty fantastic. Dan’s parents gave BB her first birthday present of the month, two Bitzy Baby dolls from the American Girl collection – a girl and a boy which BB named after herself and her brother. Pretty freaking adorable.

aquarium

On Wednesday Dan’s parents took the kids to New Hampshire to visit Storyland and Dan and I took a little romantic getaway to Boston where we walked around Chinatown, Quincy Market and such and visited the New England Aquarium. It was a lot of walking and sore feet but also a lot of fun and nice to see and do the things that interested us but would have bored the kids.

panoramic view of the Boston Harbor

panoramic view of the Boston Harbor

The next afternoon we headed back to MA and then up to New Hampshire to meet up with Dan’s family and take the kids back to MA.

cookout at my grandmas

That Saturday was a cookout at my grandmas in the afternoon and one of many birthday parties for BB that night with my best friends from high school and their kids.

a princess cake for my princess

My friend S made this cake for little BB who has announced recently that she is a princess and wants pink for her birthday (just pretend you can’t read the cake, okay?). Didn’t the cake come out pretty? It tasted great, too.

the beach with grandpa

And that was just one week. We stayed for a whole other week and a half which I’ll tell you more about later. For now I’m going to go spend time with my family and enjoy ogling our new refrigerator which is by far possibly the prettiest thing in our home. It’ll be even nicer tomorrow when I buy some groceries for it.

The newest addition. on 365 Project

Click the links to read part two and part three of my vacation wrap-up.

Nightstand: July

What's On Your Nightstand @ 5 Minutes for BooksI feel like I literally just wrote up my What’s On Your Nightstand post (a fun bloggy meme hosted by the ladies at 5 Minutes for Books that is pretty self explanatory) for June, but nope, it really has been another month – another busy month with a lot of travel and much less blogging than usual. May the following month bring less travel, less appliances dying and more reading AND blogging. This is my wish.

Anyhow, I know I’m like three days late and several dollars short, but I don’t want to miss out on a chance to tell you about all the books I haven’t been reading, SO…

Since we last talked nightstandy stuff I’ve finished two books and naughtily abandoned one:

  1. Crossed (Matched Book 2) by Ally Condie - finished July 3, 2012 - I don’t know that I enjoyed this quite as much as the first book – the love story started to get a little bit much, very “swoony” – but the overall plot of the story continues to intrigue me and I’m looking forward to seeing what happens in book three.
  2. Wishful Drinking by Carrie Fisher - Finished July 16, 2012 - I really enjoyed this memoir. Carrie is terrifically funny and i learned a lot about her reading this book. a short, fun read.

I didn’t finish The Poisoner’s Handbook by Deborah Blum, our July book club pick mostly because of being on vacation and not doing much of any reading due to staying out late every night and spending time with family and friends instead of reading – I know, who does that? While I found this book to be well written and interesting, the subject matter was a little much for me. When I didn’t finish it in time for the meeting and then heard lots of spoilers at said meeting (all dealing with death of one person or another because well it’s a book about poison), I lost interest and decided to read something lighter instead. Like about surrogate pregnancies and all the shenanigans that can be involved in such arrangements!

Then Came You by Jennifer WeinerRight now I’m reading Then Came You by Jennifer Weiner, whom I puffy hearts adore. Goodreads says about this novel, “The lives of four very different women intertwine in unexpected ways in this new novel by bestselling author Jennifer Weiner (In Her Shoes; Best Friends Forever). Each woman has a problem: Princeton senior Jules Wildgren needs money to help her dad cure his addiction; Pennsylvania housewife Annie Barrow is gasping to stay financially afloat; India Bishop yearns to have a child, an urge that her stepdaughter Bettina can only regard with deeply skepticism until she finds herself in a most unexpected situation. Interlocking dramas designed to ensnare; bound to be a bestseller.” I’m about 5 or 6 chapters in and already hooked.

Next month our book club will be discussing The Princess Bride by William Goldman which I read last summer so I’ll need to brush up on that in addition to likely reading some of the following books:

  • Buddha: A Story of Enlightenment by Deepak Chopra – I just bought this on Amazon and I’m looking forward to reading it soon, possibly alongside my husband. We’re both very interested in Buddhism and have taken up the habit of occasionally reading various spiritual / religious books together and then discussing them. I thought this would be a good one to read together soon.
  • Glamorous Illusions by Lisa T. Bergren – I downloaded this onto my kindle a few months ago and have been meaning to read it. Description from Amazon “When Cora Kensington learns she is the illegitimate daughter of a copper king, her life changes forever. Even as she explores Europe with her new family, she discovers that the most valuable journey is within. The first book in the Grand Tour series takes you from the farms of Montana through England and France on an adventure of forgiveness, spiritual awakening, and self-discovery.”

Or something else entirely. I’m planning to try and read some of the books that have been taking up precious space on my bookshelves, and likely some of the lighter books because that feels appropriate for the summer. I’m not feeling the need to commit too closely to a reading schedule right now, preferring to see where the remaining summer months take me.

How about you? What are you reading right now?

Guess who’s back?

Back in town… Momma’s back…

Did you notice I was gone? I was gone. For like 2 1/2 weeks. We went to Massachusetts for an epic vacation filled with birthdays, a wedding, a romantic getaway, hot dogs, clam strips, Boston Cream Donuts and lots of Dunkin Donuts iced coffee for good measure. Like it was goin’ out of style, guys. Cause it kind of was.

I have a ton of pictures and a ton of stories that I want to share but I’m still unpacking and cleaning and running the kids from thing to thang and oh, guess what? My refrigerator died. Seriously. I know I have said a few times that I’d love to replace our ridiculous refrigerator that has had problem after problem after problem since we moved in, but I didn’t want to replace ALL of our perishable food, too. That part does not please me. Nor the water all over my floor – and apparently we have a weirdly sized space for a refrigerator that has us ALL KINDS of limited and all the websites are saying, “Sure we can deliver that to you… in two weeks.” Ummm…. I don’t have a refrigerator guys. I was kind of hoping to get one sooner than that.

So we’re going to the mall this afternoon when hubby takes his lunch break and we’re going to talk to Sears and probably Best Buy and say “this is what size refrigerator we can have. Is there ANYTHING we can buy today and bring home with us or maybe get delivered tomorrow???” So wish us luck. May our next refrigerator fit in the kitchen and not be possessed and strange and stupid.

Here are some cute pictures as a thank you for reading this tiny rant – a little preview of blog posts to come…

another beautiful day. on 365 Project

things that make you feel small. on 365 Project

Dusk. on 365 Project

Blueberry picking. on 365 Project

She's three: pretty, pretty princess. on 365 Project

Her first haircut. on 365 Project

Attitude. on 365 Project

And today she is three.

Today my sweet girl is two no longer. Today she is a three year old. A strong willed, sweet smiling, clever little girl who is learning more each day and has endless energy with which to pursue and conquer the world around her.

She loves strong female role models like Minnie Mouse, Hello Kitty, Olivia and and Doc McStuffins. She builds towers, reads her ABC’s, sings songs of her own imagination, is not afraid to get dirty and explore nature. She climbs everything , walks backwards when it suits her, chases after her big brother with vigor and gives the sweetest hugs every night at bedtime.

She knows what she wants though she doesn’t always do a great job of letting us know just exactly what that is the first time. She’s not above changing her mind on the drop of a dime. She loves swinging and sliding and shopping and going to the coffee shop with mommy. She likes to color and play with her dolls and read her stuffed animals stories. She loves having daddy brush her hair and give her braids and ponytails and headbands in a rainbow of pretty colors.

She plays hard and gets hurt sometimes but she is a tough kid that always seems to bounce back. She frightens me on a daily basis and I cannot imagine my life without her.

Happy birthday darling. I hope the day brings you all of the magic and spectacular moments you are hoping for. And ponies if at all possible.

Our Independence Day.

Sparklers before the “big show” Tuesday night.

oooohhh…

ahhh…

slip and slide on the 4th of July on 365 Project

The 4th was a muggy, muggy, miserably hot day. So we broke out the slip and slide, the sprinkler and the water table for good measure! The kids killed time until dinner keeping cool and frankly having a blast.

more: the difference a year makes on 365 Project

Hope all my US readers had a fantastic 4th of July. It was a crazy 106 degrees around these parts – what was the weather like where you live?