If your child is alseep, do you cease to exist? A Q&A with my kids.

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How much do your kids really know about you? What does your life look like through their eyes?

One of my fave bloggers, Amber @ Crappy Pictures was inspired by a new-to me-blogger that I’m loving, Jenn @ Something Clever 2.0 who asked her son to answer some simple questions about her, which she posted on her blog as an About Me section – so clever!

This is similar to the questions I’ve asked the kids about themselves over the years, but turning the tables to ask them questions about me? Hilarious.

BB’s answers really made me laugh – I had a lot of fun transcribing her three year old thoughts. MM struggled with this – he is a very literal 7 year old and seemed concerned about giving the wrong answer so at first all his responses were “I don’t know” or “I’m not sure” – I had to encourage and assure him that there weren’t wrong answers here.

Everything about Me, According to My Children

What do I do for fun?
BB (age 3): well you do have cool babies for fun, you have perfect time and you draw pictures and you are a great girl. Does this actually answer my question? I’m not sure, but listening to her form this sentence kind of made my heart melt. I do have cool babies!
MM (age 7): I think that you like to … be with us. Clearly, both of my children don’t think I exist outside of them!

What’s my favorite TV show?
BB: World Girl and Sofia is your favorite show. If it’s not obvious, these are her favorite shows.
MM: Doctor Who This is closer to the truth, but again, one of his favorite shows.

What do I drink?
BB: Coffee and water. This is my life.
MM: coffee? Well, these kids definitely have my number!

What do I eat?
BB: a cookie and dinner I can’t argue with this. I do, in fact, like cookies and dinner
MM: cliff bars? Um, no.

What do I like to read?
BB: you like to read Biscuit to me. That’s true…
MM: the Wizard of Oz to me. It amazes me that my kids really think the only time I read is when I’m reading to them… It’s like they don’t know me at all!

What do I wear?
BB: a dress, shirt, pants and socks. and skirt. All at the same time?
MM: sweaters! You can’t read it in the response, but he sounded so hopeful and convinced he’d ACED this question!

What do I do with my friends?
BB: You draw on a chalk board with your friends. There are no words.
MM: You do board meetings I literally asked “Anything else?” and he said “Are there more questions?”

What is my favorite song?
BB: ABCs, twinkle and my name is flo. I wish I’d taken a sound recording of this interview, you guys aren’t even hearing how adorable this was.
MM: Call Me Maybe This might, in fact, be my son’s favorite song. Again – their favorites? Obviously my favorites.

What do I do when you’re napping?
BB: wake me up. Read: I don’t exist when she is asleep.
MM: You watch tv and work on your computer. Truth.

What do I do when you’re in bed at night?
BB: always kiss to me and hug to me. ::swooning::
MM: You hang out with daddy or your friends. Always literal with this one.

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You know you wanna play along! Be sure to check out Amber and Jenn‘s kids’ responses, all equally adorable. If you interview your kids, let me know so I can read their responses, too!

The Cookie S’More: Camping’s New Best Friend.

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I’m not sure when I first heard about the cookie s’more or if it was just a flittering whisper of genius in my brain one day, but it’s our new favorite camping recipe that you guys all need to know about.

The truth is: There is nothing complicated about making a s’more – it’s a tried and true recipe. So why change it?

“Ugh, all the graham crackers got smashed up in the box! I’ve got one whole one here and three angled chunks here… Hold on, let me see if I can perch these two together, no they don’t match…”

I got the wrong size chocolate bars – these are way too big for the graham crackers and they don’t have that little break off line… Does anybody have a knife on them?”

“The graham crackers got all randomly crumbly (her face seemed crumbling like pastries? what? Get out of my blog post, Ed Sheeran!) – hurry up and shove this burning hot s’more in your mouth before it falls in the dirt!”

It’s 900 degrees outside and all the chocolate is melted. Maybe we can just smear it onto the graham crackers? Oh, damn, they are broken, too. S’more parfait anyone?”

What? None of you have ever had any of these problems with s’mores before? Maybe I’m just inept at basic camp cooking (or dorm room cooking, I won’t lie) – but either way, once I discovered the cookie s’more there was no going back. The flavors, they are so heavenly – the assembly is so easy your three year old could do it (ack! fire! pointy sticks! Nevermind, I’ll assemble!) and plus, cookies.

The Cookie S’More Recipe

Cook Time: however long it takes to roast your marshmallow

Assembly Time: a few seconds

Serves: 1

Ingredients

  • 2 cookies of your choosing, I prefer chocolate chip (Pepperidge Farms Soft Baked are fantastic)
  • 1 or 2 marshmallows depending on size and preference

Directions

  1. Roast marshmallows via method of your choosing. Stab them with a skewer and throw them over an open flame (if you are using a grill, remove the grate thingy first – you’re welcome). If you’ve never roasted a marshmallow, please enjoy this handy video from the yootoobs – or just wing it. It’s kind of hard to go wrong here.
  2. Once your marshmallow is browned to perfection, place it on top of a cookie and use the other cookie to sandwich it into place, carefully removing your skewer.
  3. If you can stand it, wait a few seconds before biting in – that marshmallow is hot!

The results, will be ooey and gooey with that perfect blend of chocolate, marshmallow and cookie flavor. Make some for the other people in your camping group or keep it your little secret and laugh ruthlessly, watching them make their own Old Fashioned, Sad and Pathetic S’Mores.

Don’t have an open flame handy? Place those cookies on a microwave safe plate, top one with a marshmallow and microwave for a few seconds until the marshmallow starts to expand – then top with the other cookie. Keep a close eye on the marshmallow though, nobody wants to clean exploded marshmallow out of a microwave.

What’s your favorite camping recipe? Your This is So Easy it Almost Doesn’t Deserve It’s Own Post Except It’s Genius Recipe?

Fathers Day 2013: A weekend camping trip (Mommy & Me Monday)

Hello to Mommy & Me Monday Visitors! Pics of me and the kids (and hubby and the kids) are just a few paragraphs down! I’m combining my vacation re-cap with my Mommy & Me post – sorry about the lengthiness of it!

I hope you guys all had a fantastic weekend celebrating the Daddies in your lives! We continued our new tradition of taking a Fathers Day Weekend Camping Trip – this year we camped at the Jellystone Park in Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin – one of the many little towns in Door County.

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It was a fantastic trip overall, despite a few upsets like the very dense gravelly camp site that gave Dan a brief run for his money when inserting stakes into the ground for the tent (we had to use a hammer!) and the crazy thunderstorm Saturday night that happened just seconds after Dan went to brush his teeth before bed – lucky thing he doubled back for a poncho after feeling a few drops of rain because seconds later it was pouring and continued to pour for several hours. Luckily we stayed dry in the tent and the thunderstorm acted as nature’s white noise which meant we all actually slept better Saturday night than we did the night before!

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Though we loved all the activities and amenities that Jellystone provides, we actually didn’t make much use of them. Friday night they had a movie playing in their pavillion but we ended up missing it because we had a late dinner at PC Junction and picking up a few extra supplies at the local Walmart. Saturday we sent the kids to bed early rather than partake in the Dance Party – but we still enjoyed listening to the music and were grateful to be dry in the tent when it started raining partway through the evening. They had mini golf and shuffleboard and an arts and crafts tent but we never did take advantage of those because we were visiting dairy farms, wine orchards and the little shops in town. All of these activities would have been great in a quieter town with less things to explore (or if it weren’t our first time in Door County) but we found that all we really needed / enjoyed were the fantastic bathrooms, the playground and the great general store. We also would have preferred a little more seclusion on the campsite. Things to remember for future camping trips!

Favorite memories included: Friday morning at Bay Beach amusement park – we stopped here on the way to Door County on the recommendation of a good friend and boy was that ever a good tip! This is such a great hidden gem of an amusement park. Incredibly affordable and tons of fun with just enough rides for our littlest and slightly bigger. The boys had an epic bumper car ride, BB and I rocked the carousel and kiddie rides and we all enjoyed a little train ride together before indulging in some ice cream.

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Lunch at the Wild Tomato on Saturday – despite a brief rain storm and a long wait, the food at Wild Tomato is just unbelievably good. Breakfast Sunday morning at Al Johnsons was also really, really good. We loved the whole vibe – the grassy roof that goats keep trimmed, the traditional dresses worn by the waitresses, and the food! Their swedish pancakes were fantastic and we loved exploring the gift shop afterwards. The goats were not on the roof that morning but we saw lots of pictures and they have a live Goat Cam that you can check out on their website.

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During the evenings Dan and I played cards while we waited for the kids to settle down for the night. A glass of wine, some citronella candles and time with my hubby – these were some of the best memories. We learned a few new card games together and we even made friends with the World’s Friendliest Moth who pretty much would not leave my side!

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Overall, it was just a really great trip with a lot of good memories! We had a great time pampering daddy and came home Sunday afternoon to open presents and watch Hook together while eating some take out from Hy-Vee and relaxing after a long vacation.

Happy Fathers Day 2013



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Happy Fathers Day!

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Just wanted to take a minute to wish my husband a very Happy Fathers Day!

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You are a wonderful, caring, silly, helpful, fantastic dad – and an amazing husband. We are so blessed to have you in our lives each day. I hope you know how much we love and appreciate everything that you do for us.

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I also want to wish my dad a happy father’s day! You are the original Best Dad In the World – I am so grateful for all the times you’ve been able to come visit us and all the help you have given me as an adult, not to mention the amazing job you did raising such an incredible daughter! Thank you for everything you’ve done for me dad – I love you!

High Five For Summer! Pictures of MM from the First Grade

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Today’s High Five is dedicated to my son, MM, who is now officially a 1st grade graduate, moving on up to the 2nd grade this Fall! We are kicking off summer vacation today – while we soak up some summer sun, enjoy 5 of my favorite photos from the school year.

1 – Bow ties are cool.

2 – First day of First Grade!

3 – Heading off to one of his first Cub Scout pack meetings.

4 – The Batman fedora!

5 – Getting ready to save the day with his sonic screw driver (why, yes, we are nerds).

Hope you all have a fantastic weekend!

I’m kind of a big deal.

I got all these fantastic thank you cards from MM’s class on Tuesday, along with the flowers I showed you yesterday. I felt like a total rock  star flipping through all these cards with such adorable artwork and sweet messages – some decipherable, some not as much. Some signed, others not. It was really fun to see all their different handwriting and to have something to remember all the kids by.

Reasons I have loved volunteering in my son’s classroom.

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Yesterday I went to visit MM’s class and do my last little bit of class volunteering for the school year. I’ve been visiting his class with BB just about every week and have really loved getting to know MM’s teacher and classmates all year. He has a truly fantastic teacher this year who has taught him a lot and been very welcoming to me and BB – which makes volunteering in the classroom even better.

It is easy to be nervous about your kid being at school and away from you and to wonder how much they are learning and what their teacher is like with them. Helping out in class is a great way to ease those fears and to get a peek into your child’s school day. Just by sitting and reading with all the kids, I get a peek into how my own child’s reading compares to his classmates and I get to know all of the kids so that when my son talks about his friends at school, I really know who he is talking about and what they are like.

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I brought a little end of year gift with me yesterday – not much really, just a little travel mug and some mechanical pencils, bookmarks and a little gift card. I hope she spends it on something fun and not school supplies, but I know those gift cards can be an invaluable way to get fun and necessary stuff for the classroom. There was also a little note in there from me about how awesome she is and a drawing by MM telling much of the same.

She really surprised me though, with this beautiful hanging plant for our home and a stuffed lion with a little baby lion for BB, thanking us for all the time we’ve spent in class helping out with little projects and going around the class helping kids with their work. I really was not expecting this and was kind of blown away again by how wonderful she is. These kids are lucky to have such a caring, thoughtful teacher to help them learn not just school work but also how to be a good person.

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The only problem was – I only have one spot for hanging plants and it doubles as the home for my new wind chime in between pretty flower season – I wasn’t quite ready to take it down just yet – so I had to improvise!

My Little Ballerina: Her Last Class

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Yesterday was BB’s last ballet class for this season. I’m not sure yet if we’ll do more classes.

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She loved going to the classes, for the most part, and learned enough to show off for a few minutes at home. I think those ballet shoes may be her favorite thing about the class – that and getting to run around and be silly for half an hour with a bunch of other girls who love a good tutu as much as she does!

But the summer schedule won’t really work with our schedules and then in the fall she’ll be starting 4k. Even if we do look into more classes, it may not be at this location since we are no longer YMCA members, the pricing isn’t as compelling now which means we can look around and may choose someplace else if the timing is better – or try another activity all together.

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Most of my memories from her classes involved the fellow moms and grandparents that sat outside the classroom with me. I liked some and really didn’t like others at all – this is normal. We commiserated for half an hour once a week for about 6 weeks – enough time to be friendly but not enough time to really be friends.

We didn’t really get to see and hear much of what the kids were doing until yesterday’s class where the parents were invited into the classroom for the last day. I loved getting to finally connect the dots between the little bits that BB told me about class and to finally see the teacher in action. She is fantastic with the kids and does a great job of making the little lessons fun and age appropriate. BB gets it… kind of – but like any nearly four year old girl, she takes the lessons or leaves them depending on her mood.

Some days she is all about ballet and princesses. Some days she wants to be Wonder Woman or Doctor Who. She clearly thinks that ballet is fun and that her teacher is awesome – but I also think she is still young and has lots of other interests worth pursuing, rather than being All Ballerina All the Time.

So we loved ballet, but we remain open to loving other things, too.

What I’m Into Lately: June 10, 2013

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It’s been a cool, rainy, overcast, muggy, hot, brisk, temperamental June so far. Basically, the weather has been acting like a three year old lately. In other news, the sky is blue and the grass is green.

We are counting down the days until the end of another school year. Including today, MM has four day left as a first grader. It is hard to believe that this fall I will have a second grader and a girl starting 4k!

What I’m reading:

The Age of MiraclesThe Age of Miracles by Karen Thompson Walker, which my book club will be discussing at the end of the month. I can already tell this is going to be a book that sticks with me because just putting it down every night I find myself mentally cutting the strings between the book and reality so that I can fall asleep, reminding myself that the world in the book is not, in fact, the world we are living in even when some of the similarities are compelling. I love a good dystopian novel and this one certainly fits the bill of so bizarre and yet so plausible it’s eerie.

On a seemingly ordinary Saturday in a California suburb, 11-year-old Julia and her family awake to discover, along with the rest of the world, that the rotation of the earth has suddenly begun to slow. The days and nights grow longer and longer, gravity is affected, the environment is thrown into disarray. Yet as she struggles to navigate an ever-shifting landscape, Julia is also coping with the normal disasters of everyday life–the fissures in her parents’ marriage, the loss of old friends, the hopeful anguish of first love, the bizarre behavior of her grandfather who, convinced of a government conspiracy, spends his days obsessively cataloging his possessions. As Julia adjusts to the new normal, the slowing inexorably continues.”

What I’m watching:

With all of the fall shows over, I find myself digging for shows to watch this summer while the kids are napping. Dan and I will be catching up on our DVR in the evenings and then likely getting into a series on Netflix Instant – perhaps Torchwood? We’ve even tossed around the idea of watching old Star Trek episodes so that our Geek Cards won’t be invalidated. Naptime has been seeing a lot of silly tween shows like Good Luck Charlie, Sam & Cat, and ANTfarm (don’t judge) that require very little thinking and cooking shows like Food Network Star, Cupcake Wars & The Pioneer Woman.

Items of Note:

We moved BB over to booster seats this weekend. It’s been a plan of ours for awhile but we saw a good deal on a seat at Costco and decided to go for it. She is loving the new Big Girl Status and we are loving that getting her in and out of the car just got so much easier.

We have also been thinking about removing some of the old, ugly bushes in front of our house and planting something new in their place. Dan got the world’s biggest crow bar and tried it out on a tiny tree in the backyard that didn’t survive the past few winters. He’s pretty confident it will help get the job done with the other trees, but we’ll see.

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Stories I’ve told:

A few weeks ago the kids were picking up this maple seeds and I randomly started making up a story about how the fairies used them as training wings until their real ones grew in and how we needed to make sure to not pick up too many of them to keep so that the training fairies could get around. This led to lots of long discussions about all things fairy – do fairies sleep during the day or are they just invisible? About how tall grass gone to seed is really fairy trees and how the fairies have guard dogs (ticks) hiding in their trees to protect them and they may bite you if you walk in tall grass like that so never, ever walk in fairy trees! And so on. And so forth.

The other day I was feeling guilty about telling them stories like this, especially with my son who likely tells all these stories at school and someday he’s going to question the authenticity of my tales so I had a talk with him about beliefs versus known facts and how my fairy stories were really just “beliefs” I had that may be true but also may not. I threw in other examples of things people believe and like to tell stories about but that may or may not be true. Like Santa. And the Easter Bunny. ETC.

But mommy, the Easter Bunny is REAL!” MM argued. I asked him how he knew for sure and he said, “He leaves us Easter baskets!”

“But how do you know a bunny did that? What if it’s an Easter Kangaroo and he’s just tricking you into thinking he’s a rabbit?”

It was one of our first Lofty Conversations and I think I did a good job of getting across my message without ruining his childhood. ::pats self on back::

What I’m Looking Forward to:

Camping, long summer days, Fireworks, visiting my new nephew this summer!!!!, berry picking, going to the beach, you know: SUMMER.

what are you into these days? Let me know in the comments below!

High Five Friday: A High Five for Grandpa! (June 7th)

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I’m combining a few weeks worth of pictures into one mega High Five for Friday – entirely dedicated to the great time we had while my dad was in town visiting for the past couple weeks. We had a lot of fun going to the Bratfest together, my son’s Fun Fair, walking at Olbrich Gardens, going out for Frozen Yogurt ; and also a lot of fun hanging around the house coloring pictures, watching Sofia the First and Word Girl together and catching up on lost time.

One of the hardest parts of living here is being so far from family and friends back East and we always love it when family comes to visit (or when we get the opportunity to visit them). My dad was able to drive up for a nice long vacation with us this year and it was really nice getting to spend so much time together and for him to get to experience our every days in addition to our Super Awesome Fun Days. BB loved sharing all her favorite shows with grandpa and drawing lots of pictures and taking him to ballet classes. MM loved getting to walk to the bus stop with him and see him each afternoon – and grandpa even came with me to  volunteer in MM’s class last week!

Dan and I also got to take a couple of much needed dates while dad was here. We went out for dinner and then bowling with good friends – I think the first time that Dan and I have ever gone bowling together without the kids and we loved it so much that we are hoping to make it a regular thing. We went to see Wicked for the first time – I knew I was going to love this immensely popular musical and I was very right. Dan and I both adored the show and loved getting to spend more quality time together.

A few times we even escaped the house just to go to Target or Menards together – we had dinner at Hy-Vee which doesn’t sound exciting but it was actually kind of amazing. We tried a new to us place for ice cream before Wicked together and loved it and loved that feeling of being out on the town like a normal couple that doesn’t discuss bowel movements all day on the reg. I know that we need to make date nights more of a priority but with expenses being a bit tight, it hasn’t been happening much so having my dad pop into town and continually say, “You guys should go out, go have some fun!” was kind of amazing.

Thanks for sharing the past couple weeks with us dad – we loved having you here!

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